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Inspired By The Words – These Are The Times That Try Men’s Souls

Ups and downs.  We all go through them.  Judging from the current state of our economy, I’m pretty sure it’s safe to say that more folks are going through downs than are going through upsThe last thing any of us need to do, right now, is to slack off and stop actively managing our finances.  I know, I know.  The temptation is there, especially when things are going rough, to just throw your hands up and give up.  Do not!

It’s easy to save when interest rates are high.  It’s not so easy when they plummet to near zero.

It’s easy to find motivation to invest when the market is bullish and strong.  It’s not so easy when the market is bearish and weak.

It’s easy to live on a budget when you have surplus income and costs are low.  It’s not so easy when money is tight and prices are high.

It’s easy to give, tithe, and be generous when there is an abundance.  It’s not so easy when life is hard and times are tough.

It’s easy to plan and pontificate when all looks well.  It’s not so easy when times appear troubling and the world is restless.

Let us remember the words of Thomas Paine -

THESE are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will, in this crisis, shrink from the service of their country; but he that stands by it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman. Tyranny, like hell, is not easily conquered; yet we have this consolation with us, that the harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly: it is dearness only that gives every thing its value.

These may be trying, difficult, unfamiliar times, but our country, and its people, have faced far worse.  We have stood against the evil of fascism, the lie of communism, and the brutality of terrorism.  Will we now, in the face of difficult financial times, give up, give over, and give in?  Never!

The men to whom Paine’s words were delivered would never know the comforts of our modern world – indoor pluming, rapid transportation, instantaneous communication.  They lived, for the most part, hard lives, and many of them would deal with harsh deaths.  Their sacrifices and commitment paved the way for the liberties and the freedoms that we now cherish.  Far be it from us, and our generation, to lose hope and to lose faith.

Each of us, in our own homes, businesses, families, churches, communities, and states, should begin to take personal responsibility for the daily management of our finances.  We honor those who came before us by ensuring the passage of our blessings to those who come after us.  Today, instead of giving up, we must choose to work harder, smarter, and better than we ever have before.  We cannot allow the temporary stresses of the day to destroy the bright future of our tomorrow.  We must hold our elected officials to the highest of high standards – and ourselves as well.  The destiny of our great nation depends on the personal responsibility of each of its citizens.

Some Debt Reduction Celebrations

It’s time to celebrate some debt reduction.  Let’s go!

No Credit Needed Network member My Money Memoirs recently eliminated all credit card debt.  Congratulations!

Another NCN Network member, Time4planB, reached a personal milestone and is at lowest debt level this decade.  Great job!

My Money Minute recently paid off all consumer debt.  My Money Minute shared this good news with me via Twitter.  If you have a Twitter account, follow me and we can hang out!

It’s always inspiring to find folks who are reducing debt and changing their lives.  To all of those mentioned above, and the thousands who are fighting the good fight, You Rock!

If you have had some recent debt reduction success, feel free to share it with us.  Leave a comment and let us know about your progress.

A Plan And Rock Solid Determination

What does it take to build a solid financial future?  Money, a good plan, and rock solid determination.

Consider a recent article written by Jen from Beyond Mom.  I love the article’s title: The Budget Might Kill Me This Month.  Isn’t that awesome?  Trust me, I’ve felt that exact same sentiment several times.  I encourage you to read Jen’s article, and I think you’ll be impressed, just as I was, by Jen’s closing words -

It’s not super-fun, and it’s certainly not glamorous, but you know what…it will be worth it.

I think that’s how most of us feel about living on a budget.  It is so cool to see someone make a choice – the right choice – and focus on the future.  By the way, Beyond Mom is a member of the No Credit Needed Network and you can click here to view her most recent NCN Network Chart – beyondmom.

For our family of five, it’s extremely important that we live on a budget.  In fact, just the thought of living without one makes me nervous.  I need the structure that a good budget – a good plan – provides.  Personally, we use software developed by You Need A Budget to manage our household finances, and we really like it.  I’ve been using YNAB for several years, and I’m proud to have them as a site sponsor.

As you develop your budget, remember one thing.  Your budget will be useless if you are not determined to use it.  I can remember, years ago, before I got serious about getting out of debt, creating an elaborate budget.  I broke down categories into sub-categories, and sub-categories into sub-sub-categories.  I created short-term, mid-term, and long-term goals.  I averaged my payments, created scenarios for paying of my debts, printed out my budget, and placed in a brand new three-ring binder.  And there is sat.  The budget – my plan for changing my future – just sat there.  I spent hours creating it, and then I did nothing with it.  It was years later, when I finally decided to actually do something about my future, that my budget started to matter.  I had to find the drive, the purpose, the determination to put the numbers on the page into real life action.  Then, and only then, did I begin to turn my financial life around.

An Inspiring Debt Reduction Email

I recently received the following inspiring email from Valerie.  Valerie reads No Credit Needed, and she is also a member of the No Credit Needed Network.

Subject: Thank You

I just wanted to let you know that I finally paid off my debt this morning… after clicking online to submit the final payment of $200, I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.  Your website has truly helped me pace myself, consider purchases for the short and long-term, and think about funding my emergency, house down payment, and retirement funds. I can’t thank you enough for your… personal take on financial management, your thoughtfulness and support. I am incredibly grateful.

I sent Valerie a follow up email, congratulating her on her outstanding progress.  You can click here to view Valerie’s now-completed No Credit Needed Network chart.  In my reply, I reminded Valerie that her progress was a direct result of her hard work and that she should be proud of herself.  I want to thank Valerie for her email, and I want to thank her for allowing me to republish a portion of it here.  Valerie, You Rock!

If you are ready to get out of debt, may I suggest that you read – Debt Reduction 101.

This Could Be The Day

This could be the day that you…

decide to get out of debt

start to live on a budget

stop arguing with your spouse

start talking to you spouse

teach your kids about money

send five extra dollars to the credit card company

get rid of bad spending habits

embrace bold, significant change

choose to believe that you are worth it

choose to believe that your kids are worth it

choose to believe that your family is worth it

choose to believe that your future is worth it

stop wasting time

start redeeming the time

believe in a better life

dream a bigger dream

plan for a better tomorrow

start to rock

This could be the day – your day – the day you look back and mark as the day you finally decided to do something about your finances.  For me, that day came April 5, 2005, the day that I decided that I had finally had enough – and that I was going to do something about my financial situation.  This could be your day – if you make it so!  Let the fear and anger and hope and promise associated with your current financial situation rise up, from deep within, and then harness that power – and rock!

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